Boomers Need Love
the way, there are some of us who have lost a love, or are looking
to start a new life, or maybe are just looking for a little
excitement in our lives.
Online dating may hold the answer.
Here are some sites that we recommend... sites where you can
meet other Boomers... or just about anyone else.
Sites for Mature Singles
eHarmony for Seniors
The Day the Music Died is the term often used to describe
a plane crash that took place on February 3, 1959 in Iowa. One of the biggest
musical tragedies in history, this crash killed Buddy Holly, Ritchie Valens,
J.P. Richardson (The Big Bopper), and Roger Peterson, the pilot...
Up helps you get the benefits you deserve. Find and
enroll in federal, state, local and private programs that
help pay for
prescription drugs, utility bills, health care and
provides information about housing options and the
challenges of housing for the growing older population.
There's even a search option to find senior facilities in a
community near you...
The Life Extension Foundation is a nonprofit organization,
whose long-range goal is the radical extension of the
healthy human lifespan. In
seeking to control aging, their objective is to develop
methods to enable us to live in health, youth and vigor for
unlimited periods of time...
The Four Fundamentals of Credit Card
Debt Credit card debt is not a
topic most people like to talk about. Probably because it makes them
face just how serious their credit card debt has become. Whether you
have five-thousand dollars of credit card debt or five hundred,
there are some "rules" to live by that can make your financial life
easier... read more
Finding Health Care
Insurance Many seniors in American do not have enough health care
insurance to adequately cover their medical needs and prescription drug
medications. This is where health care supplemental health care insurance for
seniors comes into play, and aside from Medicaid and Medicare, there are ways to
get affordable health care supplemental insurance for seniors...
Boomer Travel Advice
Your travel itinerary should be part of a careful process. Plan a holiday with
plenty of 'you' time. You should finish every vacation feeling relaxed and
Baby Boomers are generally quite fit when compared to our ancestors. However,
increasing numbers of obese or overweight adults are plagued with bad backs,
high cholesterol levels, and fragile knee joints...
|In this day and age "aging" has taken on a whole new
meaning. There's biological aging (that's how old you actually are)
...and there's cosmetic aging (that's how old you look)...and then there's your mental
age (That's how old you are in your mind... In other words chronologically
you may be 60 but in you're head you feel like you're 35!... Do you know the
feeling?... What's you're mental age?)
These days there are many anti
aging products and supplements on the market that claim to stop and/or
reverse the aging process - use them with extreme caution, whether they work
or not remains to be seen. Here are some excellent
articles you can read to expand your knowledge of the extremely important
subject of aging.
Minds Can Get Better with Age
Anti-aging Reality: Not All "old" People Are "old"
Senior's Views On Cell Phones
Safety behind the Wheel: When Should Seniors Give Up Their License
Your Attitude & Mindset
A Baby Boomer Looks into an
Anti-Aging - Stay One Step Ahead Of The Game
The Secret of Longevity
Anti-Aging Research and
Minds Can Get Better with Age
By: Michael Brickey, Ph.D.
I often hear people make remarks such as, "My mind isn't
what it used to be." It sounds harmless, but if you make remarks like that often
enough you will come to believe them.
Two analogies are applicable. First, our minds are like
muscles-use them and they grow strong; don't exercise them and they wither.
Second, our minds are like computers. As we age we develop a rich collection of
programs (software), which we hopefully update with experience and new
information. We acquire a rich repertoire of data. And alas our processing speed
(megahertz) becomes a little slower. A computer with excellent software does
things better and faster than a computer with mediocre software. For example, an
older, skilled bridge player runs circles around someone who has only been
playing for a few years.
If you are inclined to make a remark like "I just can't
remember things very well anymore," be kind to yourself and remember that you
have much larger, richer data files to search than a younger person has. So it
may take a little longer. Part of the difficulty in remembering something might
be that you now have a lot more information to search. Often if you trust and
instruct your mind to continue searching for the information, it comes to you
later in the day. That is a good indication that your mind is still sharp. Ask
yourself, would I really want to trade a computer with a wealth of programs and
data for a computer that had a faster speed but few programs and little data?
While many older people have avoided computers, that too
is changing. More and more seniors are using computers and teaching their
friends how as well. E-mail has bonded many families and friends scattered
around the country and even around the world. It also has bonded many
grandparents and grandchildren. Fortunately, computers are becoming more user
friendly each year. Features to help people with poor vision are improving as
One woman told me that her parents adamantly resisted
computers. One day she visited them and they were clicking away on their Web TV.
Why? It was so easy for them to learn because it was "just like TV"-sit on the
sofa, watch the screen, and work the remote control. It is always easier to
learn new things when we have a template. (USA Today knew this when they
designed their vending stands to look television sets).
We need to think of our minds as flexible, always
learning, and open to change. As George Bernard Shaw put it, "Progress is
impossible without change, and those who cannot change their minds cannot change
anything." Rev. Denny Brake described the alternative: "Some minds are like
concrete, thoroughly mixed up and permanently set."
So can you teach an old dog new tricks? We "old dogs"
object! We don't wait anymore for someone to teach us, we have lots of ways of
learning the tricks at our initiative.
About the author: Dr. Michael Brickey, The Anti-Aging
Psychologist, teaches people to think, feel, look and be more youthful. He is an
inspiring keynote speaker and the Oprah-featured author of Defy Aging and 52
baby steps to Grow Young.
Anti-aging Reality: Not All "old" People Are "old"
By: Barbara Morris, R.Ph.
It's a fact: Many Boomers plan to work in some
capacity in retirement. When they reach the big six-o, they won't
automatically switch into the role of typical traditional retiree.
It's is not part of their life plan.
They will not fade into the sunset to play
bingo, shuffleboard, or waste time and money gambling at casinos.
They exercise, are in fabulous good health, and will work to stay
That means an increasing number of 60-plus
year-old men and women do not think, look, or live like their
parents at the same age. However, judging by images and portrayals
of seniors in TV ads, these folks do not exist.
For example, TV ads pitching supplemental
Medicare insurance for seniors, depict only typical retirees:
grandma kissing the baby; grandma blowing bubbles with the
grandkids; grandma and grandpa strolling along the beach holding
hands; grandpa playing ball with the grandkids.
Those ads generate a positive response from
those who identify with the images and portrayals. And that's okay.
But where are images of "new" retirees who look and live
differently? Many of them are also on Medicare and are candidates
for supplemental insurance. They are loving grandmas and grandpas
but not in the traditional mold.
People have the right to live the way they
choose to live. But I am bothered by the almost exclusive portrayal
of seniors in the same way they were portrayed 25 years ago.
Showing traditional seniors as the norm to the
exclusion of the "new" productive young vibrant seniors perpetuates
the stereotypical idea that traditional aging is the acceptable or
only way to age. Worse, it gives midlifers a license and even a
subliminal mandate to accept a traditional sedentary, non-productive
lifestyle as they age.
In Don't Stop the Career Clock, Dr. Helen
Harkness defines the new stages of aging that many midlifers are
adopting as their framework for living:
* First Midlife:40-60
* Second Midlife:60-80
* Elderly:90 and above
* Old-Old:2-3 years to live
The media needs to acknowledge that "Harkness
adopters" -- those in their "second midlife", and the "young old"
resent the out-dated, antediluvian portrayal of how "old" people are
and how they live, and frankly, I don't blame them. It's time for
corporate America and the advertising industry to catch up with
reality. The earth is not flat and 75 is still young to those who
don't fit into the traditional "old" mold.
About the author: Barbara Morris, R.Ph. is a
pharmacist and author of "Put Old on Hold". Sign up for her
Senior's Views On Cell Phones
By: Cathy Peterson
Look around the next time you hear someone using a cell
phone in public. How many times do you see a senior citizen talking on one? I
bet not very often, if at all. For some reason, our elderly are not comfortable
owing and using cellular phones. This is not a good thing, though, because older
people just don't realize what a life-saver these little handy devices can be.
Why don't seniors feel comfortable using cell phones? Well, there are several
First of all, a senior's eyesight may not be as well as it
used to be when they were younger. Cell phones are sometimes substantially
smaller than a regular home phone, and the keys are even smaller. The senior may
not be able to see the keys well, or may fear that they can't. Surely there are
models available with larger keys, though, which would solve this particular
Another reason why elderly individuals may be reluctant to
use cell phones is because they may seem too technologically advanced for them.
Most seniors didn't even have regular phones back in their youth, let alone
mobile phones. They may feel that they are too old to use a device that is so
modern and complex. Some feel that cell phones are only for younger people. They
may feel like they couldn't possibly learn to use one, and with all the
different features that typically come on cell phones, elderly people may be
overwhelmed at the thought of attempting to learn to use one, or even downright
Senior citizens may simply feel that they don't have a
need for a cell phone, so why go through the hassle of learning to operate such
a complex object? This is certainly a misconception, because more and more
seniors are living longer, and lots live alone. They could definitely benefit
from a cell phone if they ever leave home, which many do. They never know when
to expect an emergency, and a cell phone can really make it easier to call for
help. What if a senior were to get stranded in their car after the car stops
running, on a bitterly cold winter day? It wouldn't be a very good idea to get
out and start walking, as hypothermia could easily set in, but if they had a
cell phone, they could easily contact a family member, road service, or even the
police if necessary. If they had no cell, they could possibly freeze to death.
Seniors need to be educated on the importance of having and learning to use a
Safety behind the Wheel: When Should Seniors Give Up Their License
By: Bekie Cohner
The American population is on a whole staying healthy and
therefore living much longer. There is no question that the number of drivers
that are above 55 is on the rise. We find that more and more senior citizens are
traveling on a regular basis and most by car. The fact is because the senior
citizen population is driving more, there is a rising rate of car crashes that
involve this population. Senior citizens have one of the highest death rate per
mile driven, 2nd only to teens who have the highest death rate.
Most people do not consider the amount of strength that it
takes to drive and control a motor vehicle on the road. Nor do they consider the
implications of the multitudes of medications that they may be taking. If they
miss one, what will happen? If they take too much, will this cause a problem
It is important to realize that as we age many things in
our body become affected by the process. Our reflexes begin to slow down which
could cause our reaction times to slow down dramatically. Our vision become
impaired and our depth perception could become an issue as well. The ability to
make quick decisions and handle the multiple tasks of driving to avoid accidents
and emergency situations becomes diminished. The body begins to lose muscle
strength and tone as well as decreased bone mass. Hearing can be affected or
diminished not allowing us to use the sense to hear what is going on around us.
And the biggest impact of all could be prescription medication, how are body
responds to it as well as what happens when we forget to take our prescriptions.
All of these things mentioned can impact our ability to drive and the
possibility of it causing an accident.
The decision to give up driving is very tough for people
to make. Driving is viewed as the last greatest measure of independence for a
person. It makes it much more difficult to do the things that you were doing
before. Many seniors do not want to give up their driver's license because it
makes it difficult to go to appointments, get to the grocery store and social
Seniors should really take time to consider if they are
able to continue to drive before getting in behind the wheel. If you have had
several minor accidents, tend to get lost easily, or have family members that
are worried about your driving ability, you should really consider giving up
your keys. If the family is really worried, they will help out on
transportation. There are also many public transportation programs throughout
the US that allows seniors to ride at discounted rates.
About the author: Bekie Cohner is a nurse and writer who
has 10 years of experience working in the Austin Health
Care field in the geriatric population.
Your Attitude & Mindset
By Jorge Hinojosa MD
Your Attitude & Mindset About Aging May Shape
Your Achievements And Lifespan.
To reinforce this fact, and as a motivated
person you already know, you have it in you: the most powerful means
to achieve anything you want in life. This is true for every
individual as well.
Imagine what it would be like, if you
discover, or learn how to unleash that unlimited power: your own
mind, and apply this power in similar ways as the most successful
individuals do. Now keep an open mind and keep reading.
Your health, wealth, professional success, and
all personal achievements you may get in life are directly linked to
the primary dominant attitude you feel about yourself.
Current controlled studies found that people
with a positive attitude about aging, by and large live an average
of 7.5 years longer than those with negative attitudes. However,
there is even more.
Optimistic attitudes toward aging seemed to
favorably influence not just longevity but also the course of
achieving a successful life. Positive feelings about life in general
are the influential factors most commonly found in all high
achieving individuals that reach success in anything in life,
including health, wealth, family, and personal relationships.
Individuals with positive attitudes come into view healthier,
happier than even those that seek medical means and drugs in dealing
with health issues, like seeking to reduce their high cholesterol
levels, or control their high blood pressure. Positive optimistic
feelings even seem more beneficial to their health than smoking
cessation and exercise.
Do You Know Why We Age? Unconsciously during
the early periods of life, we accept some negative concepts about
aging. We agree to these negative beliefs without questioning their
validity. And when we grow older, these negative stereotypes become
even more relevant.
Now, we know that these negative views may
actually have a real negative impact in how long we live, and affect
the quality of our remaining life.
Currently we know with conviction that in the
past, at the beginning of civilization, when lifespan was shorter,
our genes did not develop enough or more of what was needed at that
specific period. There was no need to develop ways to keep us going
through a longer lifespan.
The cave man reached optimum physical fitness
at 30, but was most likely dead at 40. There was no need to build
the human body for a longer lifespan. Life then was brutal and truly
Despite all breakthroughs in medical science,
the existing facts consider that biologically speaking, today we're
still living with bodies that were intended and planned for the
Stone Age and not for life in the 21st century.
Body, Mind and Soul
A healthy person must develop in body, mind,
and soul to reach a full significant life. We know that the purpose
of life is development.
Everything that is alive has an unrestricted,
unlimited, absolute right to reach all the development and success
it is capable to achieve: the use of all the tools that may be
necessary to accomplish the full physical, mental and spiritual
"Every person naturally wants to become all
that they are capable of becoming. This desire to realize innate
possibilities is inborn. We can not help wanting to be all we can
be. Success in life is becoming what you want to be". W. Wattles.
I don't know what stage in life you are now.
Maybe you already reached your goals and success, or still searching
for it, or ready to become a success now.
From all we know at this time, the way to
achieve success in life, in health, or wealth, is not a matter of
age; people become successful at any age. It is not a matter of
education either; the world is full of educated people, but only a
few real successful. It is not a matter of race or color, sex,
nationality or language, or vocation either.
All these observations are the fundamental
message that the most prominent world motivational, self
improvement, psychology speakers, mentors and authors, are
determined to get across to everyone willing to listen. That the
only real difference between a successful individual and the rest
is, that the successful person's mind either naturally or because of
training, learned to do things in a certain way.
You already know, or have heard that, your
mind - or plainly the way you use it- is the most powerful tool you
already got to achieve anything you want in life.
However, since everyone has a mind, you may
ask, why doesn't everybody use it to create the life they dream
about? Why do most people use this unlimited universal mental power
against themselves, instead of for themselves?
That is the million dollar question that the
successful individual seems to have discovered. You are encouraged
and free to find out how you can also get everything you want in
life... if you really desire to be successful.
About the Author: Jorge Hinojosa MD -
Physician & Surgeon for 35 years, currently active, convinced
advocate of the positive beneficial value of self improvement and
self motivation programs to achieve all the success in life.
A Baby Boomer
Looks into an Uncertain Future
by: Aldene Fredenburg
friend of mine lost his father within the past two weeks, after
years of emphysema and a long bout with Alzheimer's. His father
spent all but the last three months of his life at his home, cared
for primarily by his wife and two adult children, until his health
declined to the point where he had to be transported to the
hospital. He went from the hospital to a nursing home and back to
the hospital, where he died.
My friend was shocked and very shaken by the
experience. The nursing home was understaffed, the food was awful
and inadequate, and the staff that was in existence was, from his
perspective, neglectful. "I don't ever want to go into a nursing
home," my friend said. And yet he was horrified by the toll caring
for his father had taken on the family, particularly his mother.
It occurred to me that we of the baby boomer
generation are going to have to redefine not only aging, but the
ways in which we will either care for ourselves or be cared for as
we face a possible loss of independence. Part of the formula may be
starting now to optimize our health so that our chances of a healthy
old age will increase; another part may involve creating new
communal facilities that we define for ourselves. I can't see my
generation going into old age quietly, and settling for insensitive
caretakers that treat us as so much furniture, calling us "dear,"
and patting our heads. We may have to form friendly alliances so
that we can look after each other and escape even the most benign
form of institutionalization, a la "The Golden Girls", and hire
caretaking assistance ourselves if we need to.
The generation that raised hell during the
Vietnam War, pushed civil rights and feminism, and redefined
education and all of society isn't about to sit in a nursing home
and crochet doilies. I don't know what is facing the baby boomer
generation as we age, but it will probably be noisy, it will
probably be revolutionary, and it may change the treatment of the
elderly for decades to come. Let's hope so.
About the Author: Aldene Fredenburg is a
freelance writer living in southwestern New Hampshire. She has
written numerous articles for local and regional newspapers and for
a number of Internet websites, including Tips and Topics.
Anti-Aging - Stay One Step Ahead Of The Game
by: Dean Caporella
health has literally exploded in the last few years particularly as
the world's baby boomer population keep searching for ways to
maintain some semblance of youthfulness. This generation of folks
has been responsible for just about every major boom we've seen
during the last 60 years and now, they are targeting health and
Anti-aging relates to both outside physical
appearance and internal appearance. The anti-aging craze has meant
billions of dollars being spent each year on products such as
anti-aging cream, drug, food, cosmetic and anti-aging antioxidant
products and major companies can't "pump" new products out fast
There are quick fix solutions such as
anti-aging cream. They're designed to temporarily reduce the signs
of wrinkles and from a manufacturers point-of-view, they're an
absolute boon given they are a consumable product that needs to be
replenished every time the user runs out.
When do people start thinking in terms of
anti-aging health? My estimate would be when they turn the corner at
age 30; heck, it's only 10 years away from 40 and they, in the main,
don't want to lose their youthful looks. But can Father Time really
be met head on?
Well, there is nothing known yet to human kind
that will actually stop and reverse the aging process unless there
is a successful secret experiment conducted in a lab somewhere in
the world that we are not aware of yet. However, yes, the anti-aging
process can be slowed somewhat and if you have just turned 30 take
heed; now is the time to take steps to ensure you'll age gracefully
over the next 50 years.
My philosophy has always been if you look
after your body, particularly your body cells, then anti-aging
should be smooth sailing. How? Nutrition. A proper nutrition
balanced diet with associated exercise. The right and optimum
balance of antioxidants and minerals daily is a great start.
Anti-aging health shouldn't be something you
decide is a good idea when it's too late. Your body cells are
constantly bombarded by those little nasties called free radicals
and if left unchecked, without the daily optimum replenishment of
antioxidants and minerals, over time, they will kick start a
degeneration process that more often than not, can't be reversed.
The good news is that this process does usually occur over an
extended period of time. Antioxidants, like little body commandos,
will seek out these free radicals and neutralize them. But, you need
to keep them coming on a daily basis.
Healthy body cells means you are one step
ahead of the anti-aging health game. Set the pace and make sure you
don't slip back and become another aging statistic.
About the Author: Dean Caporella is a broadcaster with a wide
interest in social issues such as anti-aging.
The Secret of Longevity
by: Linda Thompson
numerous remarkable events and activities of Nature. Some of them
can even be observed in our day-to-day life. However, the human mind
is unable to understand the mystery behind them because it has its
Generally, only a few people are blessed with
long healthy life. But in some places, it has been found that the
average life span of the inhabitants is 85-100 years! This is one
such mystery of Nature. Let's look at the facts and figures
regarding this riddle.
In Italy, on top of the mountain range between
Sienna and Naples, there is a village named Campodimele. The natural
beauty of this village is picturesque, blissful and stunning. In
Europe, this village is also known as "Forever Young" village. All
of the residents of this village have seen a minimum of 85 years. To
uncover the mystery behind the long life of these villagers, a group
of European psychologists went to Campodimele and carried out
research on them.
They found that the villagers live a peaceful
and stress free life. Their eating habits are vegetarian and
controlled. Their diet is mandated by fresh fruits, green
vegetables, milk, sprouts and boiled cereals. They relax for a time
after lunch. Traditionally, they sleep by the early evening and wake
up fairly early in the morning. They spend their life in the
proximity of Mother Nature.
Nature's comparable gift has been given to the
people of Symi island of Greece. The average age of the inhabitants
here is 90 years. All residents use tomato, vegetables and salad in
abundance. Normally they eat raw or less than cooked vegetables.
Due to their diet or nature's unique gift,
these people are found working very hard even at the age of 80-90.
Hard work, integrity and goodwill are the basis of this society.
Their family life is bonded with strong threads of mutual love and
caring with a supportive and charitable nature. Inhabitants of this
island live stress-free and happy lives with their families.
In the East China Sea, there is an island
group known as Okinawa Archipelago. This island is also blessed with
longevity. It has been found that the vegetables like sweet potato,
leafy vegetables, and cereals are part of their daily diet. Soya
bean also forms an essential part of their diet. According to the
physiologists, all these elements contain antioxidants, which stop
the harmful effects of aging and growth of cancerous free radical
cells. Significantly their food contains minimal salt, as a result
these people don't have blood pressure and heart related diseases.
Even at the age of 80, they can easily do
farming. They are very fond of exercises such as, gardening,
walking, folk dance and ancient marshal arts. Inhabitants of Okinawa
give a great deal of importance to meditation. They successfully try
to resolve all of their problems through meditation.
Much research and many tests have been
conducted to understand the secret behind the longevity of
inhabitants of different regions but no conclusive outcome has been
achieved. One thing is for sure that by leading life in a balanced,
harmonious, mutually loving, self-controlled and systematic manner
and in companionship with nature, one can attain good health and
longevity. Naturalists have also come to a consensus that nature and
life have a deep inter-connection.
What is the reason that in today's world, long
life has become only a dream whereas in ancient India average age of
a person used to be 100 years (Jeevem Sharadah Shatam)? Ayurvedic
scriptures provide an answer to this. They profess to follow the
regimen of Hitbhuk, Ritbhuk and Mitbhuk to attain long and healthy
life. Hitbhuk means eating according to the state of health and what
is beneficial for health. Eat for health and not taste. Ritbhuk
means eat food according to the season and that is prepared with
goodwill. Mitbhuk means eat with moderation. Don't overeat. People
desirous of attaining healthy body and healthy mind should strictly
follow this advice.
Research and Medical Science
by: Fame Ahmed
There are many
who identify anti-aging research as simply cosmetic; at the same
time there are serious medical research programs which work toward
finding the right weapon to fight aging; not only from a cosmetic
point of view but also from a health point of view. A breakthrough
in this aspect would not only help in improving looks, but also
slowing down diseases and the dilapidating effects of old age.
Stem Cells as a Medical Breakthrough
Stem cells are cells that come from the
umbilical chord of a mammal. These cells have a wonderful way of
“becoming” whatever it is you would want them to turn into. There
have been many research studies carried out on the regeneration
capacities of these cells with some very encouraging results. In
many instances it has been found that stem cells can successfully
regenerate tissue which has been destroyed due to accidents or
diseases, including brain tissue. This breakthrough is almost a
Applications of Stem Cells in Antiaging
Antiaging research can benefit greatly from
this break-though in medicine. The options can be simply limitless.
It can be to regenerate skin of course, but it also has tremendous
implications with regard to the possibility of regenerating say a
lost eye, or muscle tissue of the face among other things. Things
that today are taken care of by intricate and expensive plastic
surgery can be replaced by totally regenerating the missing tissue/
Antiaging Research and Longevity
Besides the cosmetic aspect which actually
gained prominence because of the high commercialization of
appearance today, antiaging research will have tremendous benefits
in helping delay organ malfunction by keeping them younger. As the
organs age, they start giving trouble but if stem cells or other
research such as Vitamin K application s are successful, then a
person’s longevity will increase. Their vitality and health will
also be less liable to suffer from aging problems.
Hope in The Future
Millions of dollars are pumped into antiaging
research and hopefully sooner than later people will learn how to
use nature to their advantage. Many do not mind dying, but they
really seem to mind old age. If people could stay in their physical
condition of a 30 year old and live till 65 – 70 years, it would be
a dream-come-true. This is a lot to hope for today, but with every
step that medical science makes we find ourselves closer to
realizing the dream. It may take a decade or two, but we will
definitely get there.
About the Author: Fame Ahmed is a well known
author worldwide. He has written numerous works on various topics.
He is an expert in research and writing reviews and articles based
on his findings.